Therapeutic help for people suffering from narcissists
Psychological help for people who have suffered or are suffering from narcissists
Consequences of narcissism
Again and again, I help people who suffer or have suffered from narcissists. Mostly it is about preparing communication for problematic situations and making good decisions (on my part of course without legal advice!).
Narcissistic abuse
Narcissistic abuse is the term used to describe the harmful behavior of narcissistic people. Many people primarily think of violence as physical violence. However, verbal and emotional violence can also cause deep wounds. This is also violence!
Depending on the situation, many affected people hesitate for a very long time until they seek practical, legal, and emotional help.
Possible people to contact are coaches, lawyers, therapists, and counseling centers. Unfortunately, narcissists very often succeed in thwarting such attempts to escape. They know how to assert their interests through manipulation. With appropriate support, it is easier to take good care of oneself. The reward is a fulfilling, self-determined life. The journey to this goal requires courage. It is good to have support.
Mental consequences of narcissistic abuse
People who suffer from narcissists have to cope with different consequences. Common consequences include:
- Feelings of guilt
- Loss of self-esteem and the associated loss of access to inner and outer competencies, talents, and skills
- Loss of confidence in your perception of reality states of confusion and emptiness in the head
- Anxiety and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress disorder with nightmares, jitteriness, escape, and avoidance tendencies.
- Depression
- Obsessive-compulsive disorders
- Exhaustion syndromes like Burn Out
- Physical symptoms for which no physical cause can be identified
- Confusion, disorientation, and depersonalization syndromes
- Antisocial behavioral problems
- Higher tendency to substance-related addictions (alcohol and anxiety-relieving tablets)
- Those who have been subjected to narcissistic abuse are more likely to develop an anxiety-preventing, dependent, or narcissistic personality structure or disorder.
- Chronic states of tension
Therapeutic help
As a coach, I support you with your communication and decisions, also in the context of narcissistic personalities. As a therapist, I am here to help you to free yourself from the emotional impact that results from contact with narcissists. I am specialized in anxiety and anxiety disorders.
Compassionate Support for Those Affected by Narcissists
(Note: This is not legal advice—consult a legal professional for legal issues.)
Understanding the Challenge
Dealing with narcissistic individuals can lead to intense emotional pain, confusion, and exhaustion. I understand that many of you are facing an overwhelming situation, feeling isolated and unsure where to turn. My goal is to provide you with clear, compassionate support to help you regain control and navigate through this challenging time.
Immediate Support and Appointment Options
If you need urgent help, I strive to be available at short notice, often even on the same day. This is possible thanks to immediate bank transfer options. A 60-minute phone call is typically sufficient to address urgent concerns, provide support, and create clarity. You have several options for appointments:
- In-person meetings: Available in Berlin.
- Phone consultations: Flexible and convenient.
- Video sessions: Internet-based video conferencing for a face-to-face experience.
If you are looking for guidance in making decisions, communicating effectively, or managing emotional distress due to narcissistic relationships, I am here to arrange a session that suits your needs.
Booking an Appointment
Due to the high volume of requests, my volunteer assistance must remain limited. However, I am committed to providing professional support—whether you need therapeutic help or coaching (excluding legal advice).
Appointments can be booked:
For your convenience, sessions can be arranged quickly thanks to real-time bank transfers. You may schedule an appointment first or, for even faster service, book directly. Once the fee is received, we will find the next available slot to suit your schedule.
Therapeutic Support and Reduced Fees
If you are experiencing the psychological effects of narcissistic abuse, I offer specialized therapeutic support. My goal is to help you overcome the confusion and pain caused by narcissistic relationships. Additionally, reduced rates are available specifically for therapeutic assistance related to narcissistic abuse, as I recognize the burden these experiences can place on your well-being.
Financial Limitations and Alternative Support
I understand that not everyone has the financial means to afford professional support. In such cases, I invite you to use the comment section as a platform to connect and share experiences with others facing similar challenges. I occasionally provide responses there, offering guidance that may help you move forward.
To further assist, I offer a free initial consultation by phone on the first Monday of each month, from 9:00 AM to 12:00 PM. This is my way of giving back and helping those in need of immediate guidance. To access this free service, please call +49 (0)30 864 213 65. Note that calls outside these hours or to other phone numbers will be handled exclusively as part of professional support.
Questions and Private Concerns
For questions that could benefit others, feel free to ask in the comment section. Sharing these questions helps others understand that they are not alone and provides collective insights. For more private matters, I am available for professional support.
To arrange an appointment, discuss support options, or address organizational questions, please reach out via email at mail@karstennoack.com or better please use the contact form.
A Final Note
Thank you for your understanding regarding my procedures and the limitations I face due to the high volume of requests. Your courage in seeking support is commendable, and I am here to provide guidance, compassion, and clarity on your journey.
Contact Me for More Information
If you have specific questions or want to know more about how I can help, just ask me directly. For questions that might interest others, please feel free to post them in the comments section below.
Looking for Professional Support?
If you're interested in coaching, training, or consulting, have organizational questions, or would like to schedule an appointment, the best way to reach me is through this contact form (where you can choose whether to provide your personal data) or by email at mail@karstennoack.com. You can find the privacy policy here.
Transparency and Frequently Asked Questions
Transparency is important to me. To help you get started, I've provided answers to frequently asked questions about myself (profile), the services I offer, fees, and the process of getting to know me. If you like what you see, I'd be delighted to work with you.
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Published: May 20, 2020
Author: Karsten Noack
Revision: November 19th, 2024
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Hi! I believe my boyfriend/daughter’s father is a narcissist. He haven’t been diagnosed with the disorder, but he has all the signs of one, even his mother agrees with me when I call him out on manipulating and constantly lying to all of us. How do I peacefully end a relationship with the narcissist in my life?