Prepare Your Conversations And NegotiationsCoaching & Training to make you and your offer compelling in conversations and negotiations
Prepare your conversations and negotiations
Tips and assistance for the systematic preparation of important discussions and negotiations, including body language. If the result of the conversation has consequences, the professional support is worthwhile. Learn how to prepare for your important conversations.
So let us begin anew – remembering on both sides that civility is not a sign of weakness, and sincerity is always subject to proof. Let us never negotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.
John F. Kennedy
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Are you facing rather difficult negotiations with customers who are always dissatisfied and negative? Do you keep asking your boss to raise your salary without success? You have to make clear statements or wishes to your employees, but don’t want the working atmosphere to be affected or tense? Do you sleep badly because well-formulated eloquence is not one of your talents? Does so much depend on the next conversation that every word counts?
Unfortunately, communication is not always easy. Sometimes we say something and then suddenly realize that what we said was interpreted quite differently by the person we were talking with.
Usually this happens in conversations where we try to convince other people of something – be it a special offer, or ourselves, selling a point of view, or some kind of necessity. But if we don’t get to the point fast enough and precisely, others quickly lose interest and the desired attention and opportunity to convince, fades. The conversation has failed!
To ensure that your conversations are a success, I help you to …
- … familiarize yourself with effective communication strategies beyond the textbook
- … expand your psychological knowledge and skills
- … benefit from practical experience instead of purely theoretical advice
- … deal with even the most difficult people in negotiations
- … create a relaxed atmosphere in which many things become easier
- … remain calm, self-confident, authentic and convincing
… so you don’t need any magic tricks up your sleeve. Then your conversations will be more successful!
For those who want to be on the safe side and play fair, the best thing is to learn the art of speaking and communicating in all its aspects. To those people I recommend the training Presentation Skills I-IV as private lessons.
In the right tone of voice you can say anything, in the wrong one, you cannot.
George Bernard Shaw
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I started to work with Karsten in private one-on-one coaching and it helped me to have more meaningful conversations.
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Basically, every conversation benefits from a professional preparation. In practice, the decision to provide professional assistance in preparing for a conversation is based on the ratio of expected benefits to outlay.