Explore the power of pauses in your speeches and presentationsMotto of the day
Enjoy pauses as a speaker
The right word may be effective, but no word was ever as effective as a rightly timed pause.
The topic of the day:
About the power of pauses in speeches and presentations
Today I share with you:
A pause, if used correctly, can add a great deal to your speech. Powerful and persuasive presenters recognize the importance of the pause. Pausing a speech will create a moment, drive home a message and connect with an audience.
Your message is not simply conveyed by your words, but also by your pauses. In speaking, the drama and power of the speech are contained in the silences that you create as you move from one element to another. This is a skill that you can learn to master with practice. A pause isn’t a moment of nothing. Used strategically, it is a tool to help you build an intellectual and emotional connection with your audience. When you pause, you give your audience time to process what you have just said.
When most people get up to speak they tend to talk from the moment they are introduced till they sit down. Most speakers ignore that the pauses in their talk can get a lot of attention.
When you want to impress your audience to use the power of pauses. Next time you’re speaking just take an extra-long pause and observe what happens. In case you choose the right moment and your body language is good, there is a high chance that everyone looks up and starts paying more attention to you and your message.
The quote “No word was ever as effective as a rightly timed pause”. is from Mark Twain’s Speeches, 1923. Seems he was interested in the power of pauses because he wrote in Autobiographical dictation, 11 October 1907:
That impressive silence, that eloquent silence, that geometrically progressive silence which often achieves a desired effect where no combination of words howsoever felicitous could accomplish it…. For one audience, the pause will be short; for another a little longer; for another a shade longer still; the performer must vary the length of the pause to suit the shades of difference between audiences. … I used to play with the pause as other children play with a toy.
Those who do not speak are not heard and even those who speak up are not always successful. There are a few more steps that need to be mastered.
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