Prepare Your Conversations And NegotiationsCoaching & Training
So let us begin anew – remembering on both sides that civility is not a sign of weakness, and sincerity is always subject to proof. Let us never negotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.
John F. Kennedy
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No legal advice!
Prepare Your Conversations And Negotiations
Are you facing rather difficult negotiations with customers who are always dissatisfied and negative? Do you keep asking your boss for a raise without success? Do you need to make some clear statements or requests to your employees but do not want the working atmosphere to be damaged or tense? Are you losing sleep because well-worded eloquence is not one of your talents? Is the up and coming interview a test to see if you will be included in the list of famous “physicists and their discoveries” or whether you should quit your business while you’re ahead?
Everywhere is Babylon …
Unfortunately, communication isn’t always easy. Sometimes we say things and then suddenly realize judging by the reaction of the person/people we’re talking to that actually what we said came across completely different. What did we really mean?
Usually, this happens during talks where we are trying to convince other people of something ﹣be it a special offer, selling yourself, selling a point of view, or some kind of necessity. But when we don’t succeed fast enough and not exactly on cue and in a clear way, others lose interest quickly and the desired attention and opportunity for sealing the deal fades. The conversation failed!
Let’s talk about it! – What I offer
To ensure that your conversations will always be a success I …
- … make you familiar with effective communication strategies beyond the textbook
- … give you practical tips from experience rather than just theoretical advice
- … will help you to expand your psychological skills
- … give you recommendations on how to handle even the most difficult customers during negotiations
- … reveal to you how you can create a relaxed atmosphere
- … and most importantly, how to keep calm, confident, authentic and persuasive
so you don’t need any magic tricks up your sleeves. Thereafter, your conversations will always be successful!
For those who want to play safe and learn the art of speaking and communication skills in all its aspects, I recommend the seminar: Presentation Skills I-IV.
In the right tone of voice you can say anything, in the wrong one, you cannot.
George Bernard Shaw
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