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Smile
An effective way of using the
telephone is to smile as you speak.
This may sound corny, but it
actually works very well: the person at the other end will pick up on
your good mood.
Try saying a phrase smiling, then saying it when you are serious.
The
words will sound completely different.
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Plan your calls
Take pen and paper and jot down your thoughts on paper.
That way you
never miss the important things you are calling about.
Get to the point
fast but remember that the personal elements of communication are as
important as the facts and figures.
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Listen actively
Listening is an active, not a passive, process.
Concentrate completely on the speaker.
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Keep an open mind
The trap that many people fall into is to allow their own beliefs
and perceptions to interfere with what they’re hearing.
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Make notes
Taking notes is very important.
It obviously means that you have a
record of what’s being said.
It also tells the person who’s speaking
that you regard what they say to be important.
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Voice
Because effective use of the
telephone is based so much on the voice, the intonation of the voice can
make a dramatic difference to the way the person at the other end
receives the words.
So use your voice well.
Vary the pitch and the speed
at which you speak.
Do you really sound welcoming?
Do
you sound as though you are pleased to hear the other person’s voice?
Without facial contact, it is important to convey your enthusiasm in the
way in which you use your voice.
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Headset
A good way to stay concentrated with the conversation partner is by
using a headset.
Your hands are free to take notes and you sound more
natural.
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Repeat and ask
questions
Occasionally, and politely, clarify what the other person just said.
It
helps check your level of understanding.
It also tells the other person
that you’re deeply interested in what they’re saying.
The technique
called paraphrasing, means taking chunks of what’s been said and
repeating it back.
You are summarizing facts and figures.
Asking questions is also an excellent way of taking control over the
conversation and to stimulate the speaker.
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Be patient
Don’t interrupt or jump in with an answer or solution.
Giving
feedback to show that you are still there and listening.
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Listen to tone
We are all fairly good at picking up on a person’s tone of voice and
most of us realize that the tone will ultimately decide the meaning of
the words.
The point is, you will believe their tone of voice before you believe
the words they’ve used.
More often the tone can be very subtle, so you
need to listen closely to pick up on a meaning.
Many people don’t pick up on what people really mean and often give an
inappropriate response.
Develop skills to ensure an understanding of what
people are really saying.
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There is no multitasking
Having a telephone conversation is more than enough to handle. Don't do
something else like answering emails.
Humans are not good at
multitasking.
Focus on the other person and remain with him/her.
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Be
aware of
your
body language
Even though the other person can't see your body language it
will influence the way you come across.
A smile can be felt on the phone.
It sounds silly but a smile can hide a
thousand hurts.
Showing the world that you have problems will not bring a solution to you.
Be positive and upbeat.
Who knows; your
problem could be solved in that one call you are receiving.
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Positive attitude
Attend to calls with a positive attitude.
Of course everyone has times in
life when they have pressing personal issues.
Realize that your personal
issues having nothing to do with the customers and other stakeholders
you are handling.
You have to look past what you are facing and smile.
In one sentence you can communicate a lot.
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Consider the time zones
Remember that there are time zones when you are making international
calls.
Some people redirect calls to their cellular and you don't want
to give them a call during the night.
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Practice, practice, practice
It’s like any other skill, the more you
practice the better you’ll
become.
Commit to practicing your telephone skills.